
Okay, deep breath here.
You know what I hate?! When someone who (...how shall I say this?) has many lbs. on them tells me that I need to lose weight, or work out more, or stop eating my McDonald's!
I mean, "Hello?!"
Something Dark and Dangerous takes over in my mind...
No matter how small you think someone is, most females tend to be somewhat sensitive about their weight. (and I stand to be corrected on that) There are some Awesome Women who are very comfortable in their own bodies and I applaud them, seriously! BUT, why is it not okay (universally) to tell an overweight person that they need to lose weight, or joke about their weight or "rolls" but it's okay for an overweight person to tell someone else that they need to lose weight or say something like, "Yeah, you need to hurry up and tighten up that belly!"
Once again, Something Dark and Dangerous threatens to creep in...
Can we not learn the concept of the Golden Rule? Treat others as you would like to be treated?
It works the same for say, an outfit, or shoes! If you would not like someone to tell you that yours are ugly, why tell someone that their shoes look like someone's grandmother's? Hypothetically speaking, of course! (Not the first part of this ranting and raving session, that really did happen!)
I just don't understand Life and What is Accepted. Because, I think that my view of What Should Be Accepted is vastly different from others. Maybe I'm just not normal. Me and my fat self. LOL